Why Do We Pray?

Why Do We Pray?

Twenty-Ninth Sunday of the Year (C)  |  Fr Benjamin Earl shows how today’s scripture readings can help answer the question “why do we pray?” at several levels.

Prayer is so woven into the fabric of what it is to live as a Christian that perhaps sometimes we forget to ask that simple question: “why do we pray?”. And if we forget to ask why we pray, then there must be a danger that one day we may simply forget to pray altogether.

This Sunday’s scripture readings can help answer the question “why do we pray?” at several levels.

At a very simple level we pray because we recognise that by ourselves we are powerless. Moses recognises that the attack of the Amalekites is a real danger to the people of Israel: by themselves they may not have the wherewithal to resist, and their escape from Pharaoh will have been in vain. They have no military strategy or secret weapon to save them. Moses turns instead to constant prayer “from the rising of the sun to its setting” (Ps 112[113]:3). He does so having faith in God, knowing that Israel’s “help is in the name of the Lord” (Ps 120[121]:2).

So too with the widow in the gospel: she has nobody to defend her rights; only by constant “prayer” – not in this case to God, but to the unjust judge – can she hope for justice.

It is right that we should, in humility, recognise our powerlessness and be constant in bringing our needs before the Lord. But if that were all there were to prayer we would have to say that the more powerful somebody is, the less he or she would need to pray. Perhaps this is why the unjust judge, entrusted with considerable power and authority, has “neither fear of God nor respect for man” (Lk 18:4). Why bother praying for divine assistance if you already have the military might or the political clout or the money to defend yourself and others against aggressors and injustices?

There is a clue at the end of the gospel passage: after telling us how God will see justice done swiftly in answer to our constant prayer, Christ adds, “But when the Son of Man comes, will he find any faith on earth?” (Lk 18:8)

It seems he he will find lots of praying going on, at least from those who recognise their powerlessness; but will he find any faith?

We might initially think that a strange question. If people are praying to God, surely they have faith in him? But in the gospels even the demons know that God exists, and they implore him to act in certain ways. In that very basic sense you could even say that they pray to God; though we could not say that the demons have “faith”.

What Christ asks of us is not merely that we should pray insistently for our own needs and for justice to all – though certainly we must pray for that. He asks us to have faith: that is, he calls us to believe in God and his word, and freely to commit our whole selves to him (cf. Vatican II, Dogmatic Constitution on Revelation, Dei Verbum, 5).

Prayer isn’t about persuading God to do what we want, however noble that may be; it is about inviting God to mould us in faith into what he wants for us. Prayer can’t change God; it should change us.

Through our prayer our faith is nourished and deepened: and that is one reason why Christian traditions of prayer – whether liturgical or private – focus on the scriptures. Praying with the scriptures, using words given to us by God, we enter more deeply into “the wisdom that leads to salvation through faith in Christ Jesus” (2 Tim 3:15); we learn more profoundly the holiness to which our Lord calls us.

As Christians we have Christ himself as our model: God made man was himself a man of insistent prayer during his life, and ultimately on the cross, pleading for us and alongside us for our redemption. Ancient Christian tradition sees Moses’ prayer with arms extended as prefiguring the cross (cf. Justin Martyr, Dialogue with Trypho, 97). The self-emptying of the cross is the point around which all the scriptures and all history turn, and it must be the focus of our prayer as we seek to answer Christ’s call to follow him.

Why do we pray? To be like Christ and to be with Christ, now and for ever.


Exodus 17:8-13  |  2 Tim 3:14–4:2  |  Luke 18:1-8

Photograph by Fr Lawrence Lew OP of St Margaret Mary Alacoque praying before the Sacred Heart of Jesus. Today, 16th October, is her feast day.

Fr Benjamin Earl is Procurator General of the Order of Preachers, responsible for representing the Order to the Holy See and for canonical issues in the Order's General Curia

Comments (1)

  • A Website Visitor

    Hello fr. Ben. It is so good to read your words and thoughts here. They remind me of your intelligent, witty and thought provoking homilies during Mass at St Cuthbert’s in Durham. You ‘signed me up’ for the RCIA just before Easter this year and I am happy to tell you I will begin that journey on 1st November. Your words ‘Prayer can’t change God; it should change us’ especially ring true here. We can pray hoping that God will do things for us or change things to be the way we would wish them to be, and God may answer with mercy as he has done for me, when praying for my mother’s health to be improved, for example. However, when I think about my prayers and how God has answered and helped my mother, I also realise that those prayers have changed me even more than I could have imagined. I have become a less irritable person. I feel less alone. I am more ready and able to forgive and shrug off annoyances that before would have picked away at my mind for days. Prayer is the only thing to which I can attribute the changes in my life over the past year. Prayers asking God for help, prayers thanking God for help, prayers just thanking God for everything, for being there and for creating life and all the blessings and gifts which he gives freely and with love. The prayers of the Rosary are also especially meaningful to me. I have to thank you, fr Ben, for your part in enabling this change in my life. Though we spoke only very briefly, attending Mass and hearing your wise words have had a major impact on my life and you have truly helped me in ways that I never would have thought possible. So…thank you for helping to change my life for the better. May God bless you and keep you always safe.

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